FILM
MARRY
film·marry
destination wedding videographer

Marry somewhere that doesn't know your name. Leave with a film that does.

Most weddings get filmed. Few get a film.

scroll · the films

Between a video and a film is everything you actually felt.

One side records the day. The other keeps it alive.

fieldnotes

Notes from the places I film.

Short pieces on light, nerve, and the small things that turn a wedding into a film worth keeping.

why a film

A video is an inventory. A film is a feeling.

A video remembers what happened. A film remembers how it felt.

A video you watch. A film puts you back in the room.

Anyone with a camera can record it. Almost no one can make you feel it.

You'll watch a video twice. You'll live inside a film for years.

the one behind the camera
Tom, the videographer behind film·marry

Act fast. Burn like it's the last.

Mostly I work alone; when a day asks for it, a small team I've chosen by hand. The aim never changes — that the room keeps forgetting I'm there, and stays a wedding.

"A thousand cameras were pointed at the day. One was paying attention."

what it costs, plainly

Alone, or with a hand I trust. Either way, a wedding — never a set.

Some days I move through alone; some ask for a small team I've chosen by hand. Which it is depends on the day and on the package we settle — I won't pretend otherwise. I take few weddings a year, and the ones I take get the whole of me.

ask what it runs Travel quoted honestly, at cost.
the kit, for the curious

Quietly serious about glass and light.

  • 01Cinema bodies, clean in the dark where the real moments live.
  • 02Fast primes — available light first.
  • 03The camera moves like a guest, not a rig.
  • 04Dual-recorded, backed up before I sleep — every day.

Gear is the floor, not the point.

the invitation

Invite me to film it.

Tell me where you're marrying and what you're afraid of forgetting. Let's see what happens when I film it.

I read every message myself — you'll hear back from me, not a form.